I’ve been spending a lot of time recently hanging out with my oldest buddies. We’ve been sitting hours. No phones, no iPads, no books even! Music’s okay, as long as it’s not too distracting. But, outsiders – no way! It’s almost like a very exclusive club, a band of brothers, a secret society. One for all and all for one kind of thing.
We’re thick, the three of us. Often chilling together. Making small talk about anything under the sun that catches our fancy, sometimes engaging in deep, meaningful conversation, laughing at a private joke. Of course, we don’t talk talk, as in don’t actually speak aloud, no words are said, but each one seamlessly understands what the other is saying. Telepathy, you know? It’s cool most times; we enjoy our days. We’re pretty sync-ed. We’re easy going. Since we’ve been together long enough, we know who’s what.
Of course, there are squabbles, disagreements. Strong ones. Then it’s hell. Because, you see, we occupy the same space. So I can’t get away from them even I wanted to. Impossible! And then it becomes too much – three cantankerous, intransigent voices inside one head! A ménage a trois of temporary frenemies in the mind. But it’s good that way. There’s a pushback, “naaah, doesn’t work!”. Alternate points of view. Different opinions. And once the confusion and din fades, oh, the clarity!
Our best times are when no one’s around. Early mornings, late nights, a few moments during the day. We do a quick catch up and run through things. See how it’s going, help things along, share stuff, secrets, disappointments & delight, pull the other guy up if he’s feeling down, or simply spread the cheer. Could be anything. Work, issues, botherations, or like I said, even happiness!
And I am happy. Real happy to have Me and Myself around as my BFFs. Because if we stick around as one triptych, ain’t nothing that can shake us.
Go ahead, try it. I insist… you really must! Just ask Yourself and You to spend more time with You. And you’ll never ever be alone.
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Reblogged this on survivor road and commented:
a lot of smart here in a uplifting post!
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Hey, thank you, Marcus!
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my pleasure, Kunal. This is an incredible post!
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Thanks for your kind words
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A nice thought! What are your three personalities?
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Not sure I understand…?
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Me, myself and I…what are their personalities? It could be a rhetorical question but feel free to answer.
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Aah, tripolar!!!?? No, seriously, I do think there are two sides to me, and my moods dictate which is the more dominant at any point in time.
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To think of it as two sides is extreme but I’m sure in every personality there is a dichotomy.
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Me,myself and I is what I call it . I need this!
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We all do!
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I so believe this too! Enjoying your own company is an art that has to be learned and the key to happiness, self acceptance and never giving your power for enjoying yourself to someone who might leave you high and dry. Date yourself often.
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I like that – date yourself often! Thanks for stopping by!
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The heart, mind and soul aligning….
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Yes!!! Thanks, EN!
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You are very welcome. I too have these friends.
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The best kinds, isn’t it? 😉
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Yes, my higher realms that put me in check, lol.
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